Online dating wants me to take out loans again and again

In October, I was asked to participate in a $100,000 bonus event at Amundi. I told him that I didn’t have that much cash. He said he would handle it and I participated. However, he pushed me back because I couldn’t contribute, and then he took out a loan himself. He asked to confirm his identity and said he had a cell phone camera. I can't take pictures or videos. Currently, 100,000 yuan is stuck in it. The customer service can't tell me whether I can withdraw it or cancel it.