Deceived by friend to deposit

A girl was having an affair with me, and took the initiative to ask me to download the [Touyu] software from QQ, and then there was a teacher giving lectures on it, brainwashing, let us temporarily clear all the money in the stock market, and then invest it into the international gold account, guide us with the operation. Then, they disband the large group, and the account was operated for each individual individually with full position, which resulted in the account being locked. At present, the software has been unable to log in, and continue to ask customer to make up the position. Now, it cannot be closed. I deposited 40400CNY in total and I want to apply for withdrawal.